That’s correct, summer fun WITH the kids. It is possible. Although, the topic of my next post will be summer fun WITHOUT the kids (boy, that was a hell of a teaser, wasn’t it?). Anyway, if left to their own devices, most kids will spend the summer on their devices, whether its video games, social media, or a combination of both.
With that in mind, here are a few summer ideas to get the kids out of the house and some rainy-day ideas to keep the kids occupied and, who knows, you might even find yourself having some fun as well.
- Backyard camp out. Obviously, you aren’t required to spend the night sleeping on the ground with roots in the middle of your back (unless that’s your thing), but it is up to you to create some fun activities to go with the camp out. This works especially well if you have a fire pit to cook s’mores and mountain pies…a mountain pie maker is required to make these hot, fruit filled, mini-pies of delicious goodness. Find or borrow an old telescope for some star/moon gazing. Just remember to leave the backdoor open.
- Just about anything that involves water. Yes, oceans, lakes, and pools work well here, but I’ve found that kids can spend hours exploring small creeks and streams. Simply strap some water shoes (or old sneakers) on their feet and off they go, turning over rocks to find crayfish and nymphs (no, not THAT kind of nymph, the larval dragonfly, damselfly or mayfly type of nymph), chasing various kinds of water bugs, minnows and other small fish. Yes, they’ll come back to you a wet, muddy mess, but that’s the whole point.
- Take them to a demolition derby. There’s nothing better than watching cars, trucks, vans, and sometimes buses, crash headlong into each other. Kids are so conditioned that vehicle accidents are bad things (and they generally are), that it’s quite exciting to watch them crash into to each other, intentionally, until only one vehicle is left moving. Yes, monster truck shows are also cool, but there’s something about being at an outdoor kinda-stadium on a summer evening, usually at a county fair, that promotes family bonding…OK, maybe not.
- Outdoor art. Find an old, white bedsheet, spread it out in an area you don’t mind getting paint on, provide the kids with some brushes and paint and watch them become little Jackson Pollocks. If you’re feeling bold, permit them to use application methods other than brushes, such as shoes, hands, balls, or any item other than a brush…let them get creative, within reason, of course.
- Create a scavenger hunt. Team the kids up or just have teams of one, depending on how many kids (yours and the neighbor kids) are participating. Give them a complete list or a list of clues to make it a bit more difficult, have a non-lame prize for the winner, and send them off. You might have a theme for your hunt, such as a nature theme, or an A-Z hunt, or a photo hunt if they’re old enough to operate a smart phone (so age 2 and above). If it’s a rainy day, conduct the hunt indoors or, better yet, in a local museum. I’ve found museums of natural history work best as they’re usually quite large and have a wide variety of things to find. And remember, no running.
- Indoor science experiments. First rule: safety first. Here’s one to get you started…”soap clouds.” Ingredients: a bar of Ivory soap and a microwave. Simply place the bar of soap on a paper towel and nuke it for a few minutes. The bar will eventually begin to expand and usually the newer the bar, the larger the cloud. Once it stops expanding, turn off the microwave as you don’t want cooked soap. The “soap cloud” is kinda hard to describe. While it looks wet and slimy, it’s actually not. It’s dry and when crumbled, it creates soap snow flakes. And if you’re having trouble getting your kids in the bath this summer, it’s been my experience that they can’t wait to jump in the tub with their newly created “soap cloud.” Next, hit up Google for some other examples of in-home, safe science experiments.
Yes, some of these ideas require a bit of work on your part, but no one ever said parenting was easy. And yes, most of these ideas require a bit of supervision, depending upon the age of the kids involved, but you can supervise AND participate at the same time. From personal experience, I’ve found the participatory supervisor role to be the most fun, but my wife has always said that I still have a lot of kid left in me. I’m not sure if she means that as a compliment or not.