Yeah, I know the quote is usually “DON’T sweat the small stuff,” but sometimes the small stuff matters. If you think about it, our entire lives are comprised of “small stuff,” in the form of the thousands of decisions we make on a daily basis. Should I eat just one more? Binge watch The Walking Dead or work on the house? Wear these yoga pants or not? Hit the snooze again?
These seemingly small decisions add up and become who we are. So why not make a few small decisions that, when done consistently, can actually improve your life for the better? That’s what I thought, you have no argument…and “I don’t have the time” counts as no argument.
- Get (and use) a pedometer – But just don’t wear it around and look at the total at the end of your day. Set benchmarks (or goals if you prefer) and break them! Make small bets with your friends, family and coworkers. For example: “I’ll bet all of you a tarantula that I take more steps than you over the weekend.” Or create a contest with a prize for the winner. For example: “whoever takes the most steps today gets the last MagicKitchen.com Panna Cotta.” Of course, there are plenty of pedometer apps for your phone, too.
- Breathe deep…the gathering gloom (sorry, I regressed to my teenage years when I kept trying to figure out those strange lyrics to “Nights in White Satin”). Research has shown that deep breathing exercises (just 5 minutes a day) reduces stress producing hormone levels, decreases anxiety, lowers blood pressure, and improves sleep.
- Do a crossword, or Sudoku, or play Scrabble – In other words, exercise your brain as if it were a muscle (Is it a muscle? Or an organ?…Does it matter?). No, it doesn’t matter. The brain ACTS like a muscle and the more you exercise it, the more efficient it gets. Of course, the obverse is also true. Your brain will atrophy like any other muscle if it remains sedentary for an extended period of time. Studies have shown brain exercises can extend its cognitive reserve…aka its ability to withstand damage due to aging, such as dementia. Learning new things, such as a musical instrument or foreign language does the trick as well.
- Read nutrition labels – Contrary to popular belief, ignorance is NOT bliss when it comes to your nutrition (sorry for contradicting so many popular idioms in this post). Your body knows what you’re putting in it even if you keep it from your mind and the results (good or bad) happen regardless. You might set that Snickers bar aside when you find out it has 280 calories, 14 grams of fat, 30 grams of sugar and contains trans fat. Look at it this way, after eating that Snickers, you’ll have to run about 2.5 miles to burn it off (and that doesn’t even take into account the effects of the saturated and trans fat consumed).
- Hug someone…just make sure it’s consensual. The hugging of loved ones reduces stress, anxiety, feelings of loneliness, and releases anti-depressant hormones such as oxytocin and serotonin. Regular hugging has also been shown to aid in healing and recovering from illness. Hugs also increase self-esteem, ease tension, teach the concepts of giving and receiving, and encourage empathy and understanding. All these benefits apply equally to the hugger we well as the huggee.
So, to recap: work the heck out of that pedometer, breathe deep the gathering gloom (or just do deep breathing exercises), work the heck out of your brain, flip it over and read that nutrition label, and get and give plenty of hugs…and don’t forget to do all these things on a consistent basis.